Dear Angielala: I just want some “us” time!

Dear Angielala,

I’ve been in a relationship now for 3months but known my significant other for a year now. We are both in our early 20’s. We’ve dated previously but it was simply the wrong time. We are an hour and a half away from each other. Compared to our previous relationship we both make an effort to see each other more and are very serious this go round. My only concern about our relationship is his friends. You would think I mean females right ? No males. Whenever we do see each other 9 times out of 10 one of his male friends are with him. Its like I have to sneak around my own house to get our business done because his “boy” is in the living room.  I just recently showed concern & explained to my partner how I felt about this but he seems to blow it off. What should I do to make sure this is not an ongoing problem in our relationship?

Hey girl!

Your bf is messing up BADLY! You need to tell him bluntly that if he isn’t able to give you more time where it’s just the two of you alone, then you won’t be able to give him what he wants/needs. Since this is something that is really bothering you, he should be more considerate to your feelings. You two should arrange a time and day at least once a week where the both of you can have quality time without any interruptions.. I am not saying he can’t hang with his friends but there needs to be balance…and if he doesn’t understand your needs and what you deserve, then he doesn’t deserve to be with you!

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