Happy New Year! I am so excited for 2013 and all of the changes coming in my life including the site. I mentioned the new direction and vision that I have for the site from being solely about love/sex/relationships to focusing on self-image and how it affects every aspect of one’s life. Anytime I would tell people about my website, they assumed I considered myself a relationship expert and that is the furthest thing from the truth.
I am not here to tell anyone how to date, how their current way of life is totally messed up and how I have all of the answers. I have read so many self-help books, watched experts talk about everything involving dating, especially sex and talked to tons of people both male and female and asked them their opinions on love,sex and relationships. There are alot of complicated grey areas and many unanswered questions but the one thing I do know is that the way people see themselves greatly affects who they date, have sex with, become involved with and who they associate themselves with both on a personal and professional level.
Having high self-esteem can mean the difference between meeting someone and knowing right away that they aren’t meant to be in your life and putting up with their bullshit just because you don’t want to be alone. It could mean the difference between letting a toxic friend go because you are sick and tired of his/her drama, jealousy and pettiness and keeping them in your life because of the past. Having a postive self-image can mean the difference between taking a chance out on a new opportunity that you feel will give you passion and purpose or settling for a 9-5 that you HATE because of your fear of failing. Self-image affects EVERY aspect of a person’s life and I can honestly say if I don’t know anything else, I know how self-image has played a major role in brining me to where I am today.
I have told/heard my share of sob stories about why things didn’t work out with this guy or why I am not where I thought I would be in this point in my life but it all boils down to how I viewed myself. I know that what I do and who I choose to involve myself with in my life is a reflection of the way I see myself so if my personal or professional life is a complete disaster, I have played a major part in contributing in the mess. I am not perfect and I am trying to fix things in my life that have been messed up from me finally realizing that I deserve more.
Life is all about experiences, I want to continue to share my experiences with you and have you do the same so we can learn and grow together.
Relaunch coming soon…get ready!