Good Afternoon! I told myself that as soon as I bought a new laptop and started going out more that I would start posting more often. I am typing on my MacBook as we speak and I have been busy these past few weeks especially around my birthday but my last post was over a month ago as you can see! I wasn’t sure what the issue was at first but then I realized that I haven’t been able to sit down and focus on everything that has gone on. Hindsight is really 20/20 and I am starting to see people for who they are instead of who I expected them to be.Growing apart from someone can be difficult but for me to become the best version of myself, I have to learn how to let go. I am realizing that everyone’s journey is different as well as their destination and comparing myself to others is only holding me back. I need to focus on what’s in store for me and focus on radiating positive energy.
After looking at my Facebook memories from a year and 2 years ago today, I realized that I had a more positive outlook on life at that time even when I was dealing with a toxic relationship and the loss of my father. After dealing with the pain that comes from losing someone, I became stronger and more determined because I know that pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. Wallowing in self-pity is a form of self-induced suffering and I can no longer be that person that has a “woe is me” attitude especially when I have overcome a lot in my life and became a better woman because of it. I know that I don’t have all the answers but I am always seeking inspiration and guidance from other sources and one of my new goals is to surround myself with people who have a similar positive mindset. Everything else is irrelevant if it isn’t something that will bring me closer to where I want to be in life. If you feel the same way, rock with me!
Thinking about doing a Facebook Live Stream either tonight or tomorrow night so stay tuned for that!
Until next time always remember to love and live luxuriously!