My Experience at the Sierra House

Good Morning! I have been so anxious to talk about the amazing experience I had on Friday night at the Sierra House in East Orange, NJ. The Sierra House is a transitional house for young women and their young children who are trying to figure out what the next step in their lives should be. They may be homeless because of financial struggles, family issues or a combination of many things and the Sierra House is there not only as a physical place for them to live in but the people who work there are able to connect them with the people who can give them the information, tools and resources needed to help them get back on track. After reading about this amazing place, I wanted to talk to these ladies and give them some inspiration because I felt that they could use some positive words of encouragement to brighten their day. Before I stepped up to speak, the women all shared a bit of their back story as well as where they were in their lives now and I was in awe. many of these women have been raped, molested and abused by family members and others close to them and still found something inside them that gave them the power to fight and overcome the darkness from their past. Most of these women had small children and they explained that their children were their motivation to want better in their lives. Needless to say, I was blown away and was hesitant to speak because even though I had been through many things in my life, I had never had to deal with that type of pain and betrayal from people I trusted. I then told myself to get over it because this wasn’t about me.I was here to connect with these women and to show them that having confidence in themselves is the foundation on which everything else stands.

 I shared personal stories with them from my childhood that affected the way I viewed myself as well as what I did to overcome these issues. The women were so receptive and sweet and asked me many questions about my site and my goals and it was in that moment where I realized that even though I came to talk to these women and encourage them, their attitude and positive outlook on life has opened my eyes and made me appreciate everything that made me who I am today. They touched my heart and I am so thankful that I was able to have this experience because I want to continue to learn and grow not only as a businesswoman but as a person.  I definitely plan on going back really soon and I want everyone who comes to “Amore Luxe” to know that even though I want to be successful and famous in the entertainment field, my number one goal is to connect with others and help each other by sharing our life experiences and my experience at the “Sierra House” showed that this goal is attainable and priceless.

I want to thank Keely Freeman who is the founder of Sierra House, Tanya Taylor who is a coordinator and social worker at Sierra House , Angela Daniels, my publicist who was the one who told me about this amazing place and finally, a HUGE thank you to all the ladies that shared their experiences with me and opened up their hearts to listen to me and hear my story. Words can’t describe how grateful I am to have been in your presence and I can’t wait to come back to talk to all of you again:)

To donate, volunteer or for general information about the Sierra House, make sure you check out www.sierrahouse.org

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Me with one of the cutest babies at the Sierra House
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Not sure what we were talking about but I know I was passionate about it because of my hands!
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Listening to one of the ladies talk about her experiences

Always remember to love and live luxuriously!

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Help me see Oprah at the Prudential Center!

Hey everyone! I have thought a lot about life lately and how life is too short to wait for things to happen. In order to achieve greatness, you have to be a go-getter and sometimes being a go-getter means taking a different approach to situations. They say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results so I wanted to try something new for once. Anyone that knows me knows that I love Oprah and my goal is to meet her and interview her for the site. I know that it will happen in time but the first step is to see her in person. I dreamed of going to the Oprah Winfrey show but when it was cancelled in 2011, it seemed like I would never see her live anytime soon. That all changed a few weeks ago when I received an email in my inbox stating that Oprah was going on tour and that she would be in Newark, NJ (which is like 15 mins from where I live!) in September for her “The Life You Want” weekend tour. I was ecstatic until I went to the site and found out how much ticket prices were. Upper level seats were $200 and up but floor seats start at $599 and I definitely can’t afford that right now. One of my friends suggested that I start a GoFundMe account to achieve my goal because if multiple people donate like $5 or $10, it will all add up and I can purchase a ticket. I can’t promise anything spectacular like actually getting an interview with her but this would be an amazing experience that I would share with all of you!  If you would like to give, click on the link below:

http://www.gofundme.com/oprahatprudentialcenter

 

Thank you so much for all of your support and stay tuned because major changes are underway just in time for my 28th birthday so stay tuned!!!!

 

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